[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/domacnost-bez-muze\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/domacnost-bez-muze\/","headline":"Dom\u00e1cnost bez mu\u017ee","name":"Dom\u00e1cnost bez mu\u017ee","description":"M\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem pro vztah byli prarodi\u010de. V\u017edy jsem je obdivovala. Po letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed se v\u00edtali polibkem a teplou ve\u010de\u0159i na stole. M\u011bli pro sebe jen v\u00edkendy, kdy se v&nbsp;sobotu ukl\u00edzelo, v&nbsp;ned\u011bli zvala rodina na ob\u011bd,<a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/domacnost-bez-muze\/\">Continue reading<\/a>","datePublished":"2019-11-06","dateModified":"2023-05-16","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/f7b3e8bb7f7cc0c6ca940e74a10b952be4c7d81de8a980387c865f88889f02e3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"mevio.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a359474_w3813_t1573389590.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a359474_w3813_t1573389590.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/domacnost-bez-muze\/","about":["Dom\u00e1cnost"],"wordCount":830,"articleBody":"M\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem pro vztah byli prarodi\u010de. V\u017edy jsem je obdivovala. Po letech man\u017eelstv\u00ed se v\u00edtali polibkem a teplou ve\u010de\u0159i na stole. M\u011bli pro sebe jen v\u00edkendy, kdy se v&nbsp;sobotu ukl\u00edzelo, v&nbsp;ned\u011bli zvala rodina na ob\u011bd, s&nbsp;odpoledn\u00ed proch\u00e1zkou \u010di v\u00fdlety. P\u0159es t\u00fdden byla babi\u010dka v&nbsp;dom\u00e1cnosti, starala se, jak nejl\u00e9pe mohla o chod dom\u00e1cnosti, \u00faklid, pran\u00ed a d\u011bde\u010dek chodil do pr\u00e1ce. Odch\u00e1zel brzy r\u00e1no a ve\u010der se vracel. Zd\u00e1 se V\u00e1m to zastaral\u00e9? Dnes je vztah zalo\u017een na v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9m st\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed a vy\u010d\u00edt\u00e1n\u00edm. D\u011bv\u010data jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1na matkou jako princezny.&nbsp;Kluci jsou vychov\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed jako rozmazlovan\u00ed syn\u00e1\u010dkov\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed nemaj\u00ed ani zd\u00e1n\u00ed o zodpov\u011bdnosti, dovednosti, p\u0159\u00edstupu k&nbsp;pr\u00e1ci. Kter\u00fd rodi\u010d nemetl sv\u00fdm d\u011btem cesti\u010dku? M\u00edra zodpov\u011bdnosti, pokory, \u00facty k&nbsp;druh\u00fdm jsou leckdy na m\u00ednusov\u00e9m prahu. Pro\u010d je mu\u017e rad\u011bji v&nbsp;pr\u00e1ci a nestar\u00e1 se o rodinu? Mus\u00edme hledat odpov\u011b\u010f u\u017e v&nbsp;ran\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed. To mu\u017esk\u00e9 postaven\u00ed u\u017e nedovoluj\u00ed sv\u00fdm syn\u016fm jejich matky, kter\u00e9 jim metou ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bnou cestu. A my jejich p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b, \u017eeny, man\u017eelky, dcery v&nbsp;tom pokra\u010dujeme d\u00e1l&hellip;a pak si st\u011b\u017eujeme. Emancipace zast\u00ednila rozum, o\u010di, \u00fasudek, d\u00edky n\u00ed i padaj\u00ed vztahy do z\u00e1huby. Zd\u00e1 se n\u00e1m to, \u017ee mu\u017ei jsou sp\u00ed\u0161e vedeny jako \u017eeny a \u017eeny jsou sp\u00ed\u0161e stav\u011bny do role mu\u017e\u016f? V&nbsp;leckter\u00e9 dom\u00e1cnosti se \u017eeny um\u00ed postavit k&nbsp;mu\u017esk\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci tak, \u017ee p\u0159ed\u010d\u00ed mu\u017ee. \u0158\u00edd\u00ed auta, autobusy, n\u00e1kladn\u00ed i ta d\u00e1lkov\u00e1 vozidla, motorky, \u0159\u00edd\u00ed firmy, na stavb\u011b je vid\u00edte sva\u0159ovat, betonovat, vozit kole\u010dka pln\u00e9 a\u017e po okraj, bojuj\u00ed ve v\u00e1lk\u00e1ch. M\u00e1 to takto b\u00fdt? Jak\u00fd m\u00e1te pocit, kdy\u017e vid\u00edte \u017eenu v&nbsp;t\u011bchto pozic\u00edch? A nyn\u00ed pohled na mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd je v&nbsp;dom\u00e1cnosti, je na mate\u0159sk\u00e9 dovolen\u00e9, va\u0159\u00ed, za\u0161\u00edv\u00e1, pere, ukl\u00edz\u00ed? Tak\u00e9 V\u00e1m to moc nesed\u00ed? M\u00e1me br\u00e1t vztah jako boj o prvenstv\u00ed nebo dokazov\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee um\u00edm v\u00edc ne\u017e ten druh\u00fd? \u017deny se um\u00ed postavit k&nbsp;pr\u00e1ci tak, \u017ee mu\u017ee utla\u010duj\u00ed do pozad\u00ed, nenechaj\u00ed jim ani trochu prostoru na to, aby se stali mu\u017ei. Obranou mu\u017e\u016f je jejich lhostejnost, hled\u00e1n\u00edm jin\u00fdch vztah\u016f \u010di n\u00e1vrat do mam\u00e1 hotelu. Rad\u011bji se upnou na pr\u00e1ci, svou firmu, kde jsou pot\u0159ebn\u00fdmi, kde jsou cen\u011bny, kde je pochv\u00e1l\u00ed \u0161\u00e9f, kde je n\u011bkdo poslouch\u00e1, uct\u00edv\u00e1 a ke v\u0161emu je\u0161t\u011b za pen\u00edze. Mo\u017en\u00e1, kdy\u017e vid\u00ed svou \u017eenu, jak d\u011bl\u00e1 i mu\u017esk\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce, vychov\u00e1v\u00e1 sama d\u011bti, star\u00e1 se o dom\u00e1cnost a p\u0159i tom sama chod\u00ed do pr\u00e1ce, uzn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee zvl\u00e1d\u00e1 v\u0161e l\u00e9pe ne\u017e on s\u00e1m. Ale, ur\u010dit\u011b nechce sout\u011b\u017eit, pr\u00e1t se o prvenstv\u00ed, h\u00e1dat se. Chce m\u00edt doma klid. Mus\u00edme si uv\u011bdomit, co vlastn\u011b chceme. Chceme funguj\u00edc\u00ed rodinu, kde m\u00e1me doma chlapa?M\u016f\u017eeme se o n\u011bj op\u0159\u00edt, v\u011b\u0159it mu, o v\u0161em se poradit a tak\u00e9 spole\u010dn\u011b rozhodovat. Trp\u011blivost a tolerance je na m\u00edst\u011b. To \u017ee nebudete m\u00edt v\u0161echno hned je prvn\u00ed v\u011bc, se kterou se mus\u00edte sm\u00ed\u0159it. Mu\u017ei p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed jinak. Jak se m\u00e1 c\u00edtit mu\u017e, kter\u00fd je doma k&nbsp;ni\u010demu, p\u0159ece se po n\u011bm chce, aby pracoval, aby \u017eivil rodinu, a to d\u011bl\u00e1. Pak v\u00edme, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u016f\u017ee zvl\u00e1dat se starat o d\u011bti, dom\u00e1cnost, va\u0159it a pr\u00e1t. &nbsp;Je v\u0161eobecn\u011b zn\u00e1mo, \u017ee \u017eena toho um\u00ed v\u00edce zvl\u00e1dnout. \u017deny by m\u011bly dovolit mu\u017e\u016fm c\u00edtit se jako mu\u017ei. Povolme v&nbsp;sob\u011b tu nutkavost, \u017ee v\u0161e zvl\u00e1dneme i za mu\u017ee. Zachovejme chlapa takov\u00e9ho jak\u00e9ho chceme m\u00edt, kter\u00fd rozhoduje, um\u00ed se postavit k&nbsp;pr\u00e1ci, zaji\u0161\u0165uje rodinu, kterou miluje. Tradice na\u0161ich babi\u010dek a\u0165 jsou n\u00e1m p\u0159\u00edkladem. H\u00fd\u010dkejte si mu\u017ee, chvalte je, va\u0159me mu tepl\u00e9 ve\u010de\u0159e, v\u00edtejte ho doma polibkem, \u0161eptejte mu sl\u016fvka jak je pot\u0159ebn\u00fd. Va\u017eme si ho. Tato investice cit\u016f, l\u00e1sky a \u00facty, le\u010d je to v&nbsp;dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b trochu zastaral\u00e9, je to co m\u016f\u017eete d\u00e1vat mu\u017e\u016fm zcela zadarmo a p\u0159i tom z\u00edsk\u00e1te jm\u011bn\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.6\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Dom\u00e1cnost bez mu\u017ee","item":"https:\/\/www.mevio.cz\/domacnost-bez-muze\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]